I am just curious as to why people put themselves through something that seems so unnecessary.I’ve witnessed so many put themselves through an unnecessary amount of heartache and torture for a failing outcome. You shouldn’t, you can’t, and you won’t change each other. Move on. It’s scary to see such intelligent, strong willed people fall putty in the arms of “love”. If it’s not working, then it’s not working. that’s that. Know your worth. Realize that you deserve no less than what you are going to put into a relationship. Most of all, you deserve to be happy.